很长一段时间,我一直在思考这些年我在这里学到的对我意味深长的东西。
承担个人责任,不要过分依赖、将希望寄托在他人身上。无论发生了什么,你都必须为那些你追寻的一切负责。
对你而言,什么才是重要的—每天花一定的时间来思考一个人仅仅是活着,这有什么价值。每时每刻,我们在不停的追寻,我们都在不完全确定他是否值得我们付出、是否值得我们选择。如果你不知道什么事最重要的,那么你将会忽略很多。如果你想知道该追寻什么、该坚持什么、该放弃什么,请认真思考一下你对价值观的定位。
关注下个人健康,我清楚的认识到健康是多么重要,这是一个人去创造个人价值的基础。如果为了健康,你不花时间和精力的话,你人生的绚烂多姿从何谈起。舍不得投资健康,必将为健康花费更多。
事实证明所以人都渴望得到尊重。简单点说,如果你想有自尊,那么你必须学活怎么尊重自己。如果你想获得别人的尊重,你必须要尊重他们。
对事物的坚持、不懈追求,对生活来说感觉有一种无形的动力,在敦促我们。挑战自我、挑战极限,成功也就是水到渠成的事情了,但是一旦放弃,成功无从谈起。匆忙的人,像是巨浪,再怎么大的浪花只会致使树摇石动,没有大的影响。一直在前行,有个人坚定思想的人,犹如一条江河,随着时间的推移,江河足以致使山崩地裂的。
不要害怕简单地生活,如果你满足于简单的生活,那么你也就变的简单,没有太多的思绪和杂念,也就不会有悲伤和痛苦。 如果你沉迷于幻想,幻想你所拥有的,我想时间久了,你不会快乐。因为永远处于不满足的状态,你追寻的太多。因此我希望我们都可以很简单的生活,生活的很简单。
此时此刻,我思绪万千。人所拥有的,我们称之为道,或者称之为生活。这些都不太重要,我只是希望我们都能够记住美好的事物,命运的安排是如此的美好。我希望我们还能够再见。谢谢!
I’ve taken a moment to reflect on the most essential things I’ve learned here. Take Personal responsibility – do not depend excessively upon those above you. Whatever happens to you, you must understand you are responsible for any change you would wish to see happen.
Know what is important to you – Take some time every day to clarify your values and whether or not you are living with integrity with them. Every moment we make choices in which we sacrifice certain possibilities for the sake of another. What do the particulars matter if you do not know what is essential? If you want to know what is worth sacrificing and what is not, reflect on your values
Take care of your health – I have come to feel that one's health is the basic currency in which we create our life. If you do not cultivate it, how will it be abundant? If you do not budget it, how will you avoid waste. Don't be afraid to spend it, by all means challenge yourself, but spend it wisely.
Practice upright conduct – We all want to have respect. If you want to have self-respect, you must treat yourself with respect. If you want others to respect you, you must treat them with respect. This is the simplest way I can say it
Practice something every day – There is a momentum which our daily activities follow. If you practice something daily and within your human limits, accomplishment will feel natural, and non-accomplishment will feel unnatural. People in a rush are like waves, even the biggest only move trees and rocks. A river on the other hand can cut mountains and only grows stronger with time. Don't be afraid to live simply – If you are content to live simply, then in times of abundance you will be without waste and excess, and in times of scarcity you will be without sadness and grief. If you indulge in the habit of believing "if only I had that" regularly, then even great luck may turn to disaster.
There are my thoughts ,This is what I have ,we can call it Dao or we can just call it life .I don’t really think it matter so much .Whatever we call it thought .I hope we can remember to be grateful for it .the fate that we alive at all means we have something to be grateful for .we will meet again .Thank you !